I've been through the whole dating app thing myself.
One experience I had was a woman in my area and who seemed awesome, said to me after a couple days of chatting, "What are some of your flaws? You seem too perfect." So, I brought up something, which she proceeded to argue that was not a flaw and actually not true lol.
Another time I talked with a girl with a master's degree in psychology. I was excited to talk psychology with someone else with a passion for it - turned out that I lost her in conversation (odd, no?). Then she explained how she wasn't feeling it.
But yeah, Nick needed a guys club or something.
And shall I say, welcome back to Medium!