Rather impressed.
Focus. Have phone and correspondence etiquette. Confidence. Be nice, pursue the perfection, but not be passive. Initiate with intention. See the whole woman.
The list was 100%. I did leave out sex when I typed the aforementioned. It's just, it doesn't work for me, honestly. A woman's trust is directly affected by sex if she is honest with herself. To open herself fully, is to give trust. I don't a woman who will hold back, that's no fun for me - someone who loves psychology. I do see the whole woman. As I hope that is mutual. To "see all of me" and honor it - then I will be "your" only "trust" investment. We will have sex after marriage because I want "you" to see me for who I am. I want "your" entire future till death do us part.
So, anyways. I gave this 50 claps because 6 rockstar points out of 7 is just something I never see anymore.
To add to #7. The "whole" person involves mind, body, spirit or neurotheology if you are Christian and mind, body, and emotions or psychoneurobiology if you are not. The trick here is to note, you have no authority to change the brain. Neither do men. Respect and honor both brains.
Lastly, about the other comment to this story, from Jodie. I agree, also. The science of How is not really something people talk about. We have to get REAL involved and begin getting into exposing the rot. People who did not attain the knowledge early on - it will cost them every bit of their comfort to become a Spartan in the brain. But, the science has already been published.
Footnote: I agree with the male "friend" part. Women, I am not your friend. I am a friend to one woman. I wrote all the "whys" of male friendship here: https://joshualyon74.medium.com/a-combat-veterans-letter-to-female-friends-the-reasons-i-m-friends-with-you-b031b922bd43. Oh, actually, Tara wrote the 7 Dating Rules here, right! Tara changed her picture and that has been throwing me off ever since. I asked Tara to leave me feedback on my story when I commented last time on one of her stories. Now I'm inviting everyone who thinks men are friends to come and read about the male brain.
