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1) Semi-agree. I agree, because I like natural myself. I use the saying, "is this how you wake up?". I disagree because what I call the Cleopatra Principle. Before I state the definition I will say I do have a male term as well and that is a different topic. The Cleopatra Principle I termed as: a man feels most valued if she has dressed up like a queen for him for a scheduled intimate time and has done so out of her own choice. Reasoning: He knows that if she has taken so much time, research, and effort for him out of love and intention to make herself a complete angel (BUT not making her look like a different person, to be clear), then all the business meetings and such that follow, where she dresses up like a million dollars will look like she put in half the effort. We've all been there when we had to reschedule time with our significant other or spouse for a client and when we leave better dressed for the client than we would for our loved one, and during a time that was already scheduled for our spouse - that is a knife through the heart. One which we will never speak of to them, because we don't want to make them feel bad but one that we may never forget. That is where division can take root. Every relationship wants to last and grow. Sometimes this means we actually have to love the person and put in effort we would not put in for anyone else.

I did not mean for this to be that long, ha-ha.

3) I think preppy girls might confuse this for "jeep girls or cowgirls". That would be counterproductive and counterintuitive ha-ha. They would still have men lined up down the street.

4) Agreed. As Dr. Louann Brizendine explained in her book the Female Brain, the brains of men subconsciously "scan" women for health/natural selection/reproduction capability. So, this might not work for men who would have good cognitive skills.

You can also add: 6. Wear a ring. Reason: If a man still flirts with you when you have a ring, there's a lot of science here:

1) He is too dumb to know that if she loves someone, it will take her a long freaking time to severe her emotions from him. Many women actually bluntly refuse to severe emotions. For me, I'm not even humoring that in my relationship. Life is too short to walk to a lady with a ring - even if she's single.

2) If a man walks up to a woman wearing a ring, there is NOTHING in science that says he respects her and will respect her if she is wearing his ring. He will still be looking for the next best thing because he has no respect for relationships and commitments. She can just go ahead and say, "well if that's your level of respect, I can't trust you. Bye now". If she a woman who would accept flirting from a man when she wears a ring, she should probably just give her ring back anyways.

P.S.

In reference to your "guy friends" I would absolutely LOVE your feedback on one of my stories!!!!

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J & J (Jessica & Joshua J. Lyon, QMHP, ACNP)
J & J (Jessica & Joshua J. Lyon, QMHP, ACNP)

Written by J & J (Jessica & Joshua J. Lyon, QMHP, ACNP)

She's an Accountant & he is an MA student in Counseling at Liberty U, has a BS in Criminal Psychology, is a Mental Health Worker, Combat Veteran, & Writer

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