Surprised your profile has not popped up yet in my recommendations. Glad it did.

Meeting a man is tough! Like you said, it can happen anywhere. It is luck in obtaining that connection before you or the man move on past that area, office meeting, Starbucks line, etc. So, we need to stop with that Starbucks App when we run in grab it up and run out. A fast-pace life will be harder to meet someone - by someone, I mean a well-developed man.

Also, men need to be more friendly. But I know with me, before I was married, I needed to see your ring finger first. By showing you don't have a ring, it says a couple things: A) you are not married and B) you are open for conversation. Sometimes I would approach, but most had rings and I did not want to come off as contemptibly low. Approaching married women is contemptibly low as shit and he is risking his life if I find out - and I will always find out because my wife is transparent about everything. We have no secrets. Or it's over, division has already begun.

A few notes from your story:

1. Putting in too much effort and getting burned out when meeting the next person in the Starbucks line we can tend to come off a little hard. We tend to get a list of questions to "not waste our time".

2. Meeting in-person rides on both just as much. They both need to slow down. He, especially, needs to know how to talk with women effectively and not give a bad vibe off.

3. When my wife are I are together and not in other states, I shower everyday before bed lol. I expect the same cleanliness and the self-awareness know what areas to hit a little extra. My wife and I are transparent with feedback and correct ourselves accordingly.

5. The power of talking and personal development (not occupational - male occupational success is not a result of personal development, ask any trophy wife) cannot be talked about enough. If he can't talk women tend to just tie off the conversation. Even if he would be a good match. Some men, analytical men, are way introverted. Men do need to build some public power, as I tell all men who see me, but sometimes that happens after the woman takes the conversation lead (stepping into being a house manager). He will not walk away if he likes her, her femininity and personality will win him over. Even her doing that will be a good thing. Women might be surprised to see how he develops into masculinity towards her.

You can ask my wife, we both think we are the perfect match of imperfect people. Our communication is rock solid and we both have verbalized that communication is non-negotiable. Our chemistry is natural and organic. - Top Secret info or not. There is still a way to communicate. However, I have life scars of experience, like a healthy male lion. More than most dipshits in my age group. My scars are not in treatment anymore, they are healed over and I'm looking forward to conquering new territory with my huntress.

More about me: I only talk when I'm paid for it, very introverted. But, I can talk with her all day.

Another thing, I had to show her self-sacrifice, as a man. I had to show a heart of service without prompting. I had to submit to her female brain and she had to submit to my male brain. For well developed men, the only well developed men, we need a war to win. She helps us feel like winners, by giving femininity as encouragement. Femininity is part of a healthy woman's personality.

Men need to operate well in stress or we will abuse you in mind, body, and spirit. We must be winners and warriors. We must be humble. We must have a action side, a protection side, or we do not posses ownership. Without ownership in the male brain, we will probably cheat on you. Let me rephrase, if we have a chance to cheat we will, we might not go after it initially, but we will accept a proposal.

If any man abuses at all. In mind, body, OR spirit, say nothing more, just leave. You are with an underdeveloped boy who needs to jump into an ethical war and either die or mature.

My wife and I go after each other's love languages without prompting.

A man is a perfect combination of emotional and mental strength with a valor to prove it, humility, attentiveness towards what she needs and wants (never about what he want), and honor. Combat operations and life are transferrable principles; if I can't make an operation plan with a man, that is a red flag. If he puts forth combat operation rules into relationship he will be great.

We are not located in one spot. As you said, it is luck to find us.

I would say a woman has a 80% chance the man she found is her man if he: 1) knows and walks Ephesians 4:11-16; 2) Libertarian by theological, political, and history facts; good life experience, and is a warrior in life.

Side Note:

Could I quote your stories in my future stories? (Obviously I will give the correct credit)

Currently I am developing a story integrating about 6 writers so far. The 6 writers I found to quote. You are number 7.