You articulated this perfectly! I wish all women were prompted to read this at the age of 16.

Even good guys have some signature lies that they do in order to get her wall down. So imagine how many things a man who is not a lifer brings up. Not just that, but gets a 💯 woman (who was going to wait until marriage) to do everything under the sun before marriage haha, which leaves lifers like myself off to the side like “what the f*ck? That guy is a piece of sh*it. I seen that since the day he was born, why didn’t she? Ah! His persona of male perfection, right. A knight in shining armor means that soldier hasn’t done sh*t. Us men have scars up and down and we still have a big smile on our face. We not only won our wars, but we did it with f****** class. But, we didn’t get the princess, the jack*** who never went to war did. We are stuck with what they left behind. We still see her as a princess, but she now does not see herself as a princess, she can’t trust the good guys when we compliment her (because she’s already had all the compliments on f****** planet Earth), and also she has said she might never get married again.”

Again, this article was perfect.